I caved again last night to scrolling through my news feed. But I only read the headlines. I guess that’s a compromise.

I was really good about not looking at my social media. That seems to be the easiest for me to have let go of. It could be because I’ve had some practice with it, as well as the fact that there’s only two platforms I have used: FaceBook and Instagram. I’ve left FaceBook in the past for up to three months at a time. It puts me in mind of the process I went through when I quit smoking so many years ago. It took me many attempts, but I finally managed it. (Though, getting pregnant with my first child was really the nail in the coffin on that habit…)

But the news….UGH. So hard to stay away. Part of me is like, what if there’s a major natural calamity that will be affecting me where I am? What if missiles are headed our way? What if war breaks out here? What if the unimaginable becomes very possible? In which case, I have to wonder with my newfound unsentimental objectivity, would it matter if I knew? Because we are certainly not preppers. What would my family do? Where would we go? I think about that movie, “Don’t Look Now”, and the ending, and feel like, yeah…honestly, what does knowing really help? And it puts me in mind of my father’s death….(My mind goes off on tangents that way. ADHD, you know…)

Oh, and YouTube….

Yeah, YouTube, which I also tend to turn to for news (Don’t roll the eyes! A lot of news outlets have channels, including foreign ones, like Deutsche Welle…And there are YouTubers out there with pretty good informative content…) Anyway, YouTube has these travel channels with walking tours of various places that I like to watch sometimes. There’s no commentary, just the audio of the walking environs, just the visuals…and that’s what I enjoy about them. It’s like getting to travel virtually when you don’t have the luxury of traveling. It’s like having a nice quiet walk to yourself…which is something I’ve always enjoyed…and I like to see the places I’ve always wanted to visit, and the places I’ve already been that I miss terribly.

BUT….I realized as I was watching this one video while drinking my coffee this morning….I’m doing it again. Not being present in my own life. Because I’m NOT there. I’m here, with things I really should be taking care of for me and my family. Like taking a walk myself…with my dogs, who are in desperate need of more exercise, as am I….Yes, the YouTube video of a nice, quiet, rainy walk in Brooklyn, NY is somewhat relaxing, feeds into my typical daydreamer mind, but ultimately, how does it affect my life right this minute, aside from taking up my time?

And on that note…..